Tuesday, June 24, 2008

* GOTCHA DAY !!! *

Today was the big day! After a morning trip out to sign documents, and a delicious lunch at the hotel restaurant, we got to go to the orphanage at 2:30 for the final trip. Finally, not just another “visit” to the orphanage! Meredith was brought to us in the same special outfit we had left for her. We had brought another one just in case, but this orphanage seems very conscientious and they wanted her to be able to have this outfit. They also - to our surprise - brought out the blanket and bear that we left with her in May! I don’t know if they put them away somewhere while we were gone, or if she actually had them during our absence, but either way it was so thoughtful of the staff to hang onto them for us.

Our final time at the orphanage was spent getting some questions answered about Meredith’s eating and sleeping schedule (three 2-hour naps per day, and 5 feedings) and giving several of the orphanage staff a chance to say goodbye to her. We were able to get her photo with one of the care staff, her opthamalogist, her pediatrician (who we’d met on the first trip), our facilitator and translators (both today’s translator – a new one – and the court translator from a couple weeks ago, who happened to be there with another family). We were getting ready to leave and then we were told to wait for one more person: the orphanage director. I was really glad she wanted to come and say goodbye. I have the impression that she is an intense, sort of severe kind of person after having interacted with her on our first trip. But saying goodbye to Nadia brought out her sweet side. She was so happy to have her picture taken with her, and she held her and whispered little things to her. I got a little choked up. Then she started talking to us – she makes eye contact even when though she’s talking in Russian and knows we can’t understand, and then our translator translates. She told us that she knows Meredith will do wonderfully well now that she has a family, that they will look forward to getting photos and letters from us, and that we are invited to return to adopt again in the future. It felt so good to have her blessing.

We don’t think it’s a good idea to show photos of the various people we took pictures with today, since this is a public blog and we did not get their permission to post their faces on the internet. We will be putting these photos in Meredith’s album, so you will have a chance to see them when you are with us. For now, enjoy a few photos of our special day…
Rob and Meredith reunited:


Sarah seeing whether Meredith was okay with being in a carseat – she was!




Rob bringing our little sleeping princess (fell asleep in the car) to the hotel room:

Home sweet hotel room – they brought in a crib for us today! And the cleaning lady – who knew a baby was coming since she helped with the crib – saw us with Meredith and just smiled from ear to ear and spoke in an approving tone. I think what she said was probably something like “Isn’t that the sweetest little girl I’ve ever seen!” At least, that’s what I would say if I were her.


The plan for the rest of our trip is to get Meredith’s passport here tomorrow and then leave for Moscow in a car in the late afternoon (seemed like it would be easier than navigating the train with her). Then Thursday and Friday we will work on paperwork in Moscow and stay in an APARTMENT again!! We loved our apartment there last time, and supposedly the one this time is just as good and more centrally located. Over the weekend, I hope we’ll be able to get out and about a little bit. Given the three-nap schedule, we’ll have to organize each day in little chunks, but maybe this is good for all of us! We think our paperwork will be finished there on Tuesday (or so) and our plane flies out on Thursday. I finally feel like we’re in the home stretch! Only a little over a week left.

We don’t yet know our internet situation in Moscow – we think it will be good – but just be aware that we might not have as much freedom with our time to go find an internet cafĂ© now that we are MOMMY and DADDY! We’ll try to post when we can, but please assume that no news is good news :)

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

FABULOUS! Joe and I have been following your process regularly, and are SO thrilled for the three of you! Eliott also has liked seeing pictures of 'baby Meredith' - VERY into everything babies right now! Timing was right this AM, because *GOTCHA DAY* was posted while I was reading the rest...imagine that! I for one have thoroughly enjoyed reading your blogs...almost as good as being there myself! Congratulations, and enjoy every minute (even the cranky and frusterating ones!) She is a very lucky and loved little sweetheart!

Kate said...

Wow I am totally crying right now for you! I am so happy and thrilled for you guys! Lucky Meredith! God bless your new family.

Sara Joy said...

Tears of joy for you my dear dear friends! The journey has been long and I rejoice with you over this blessing from God. I CAN'T WAIT TO MEET MEREDITH NADIA HAMERSMA! :)

Mary and Michael said...

So happy for the three of you. Congratulations again. You are almost home, only 1 more stop. Yeah!

Anonymous said...

I am so happy for you both!
Meredith is just precious.
What a blessing!
Waitingfornadia (FRUA)

Anonymous said...

I have tears in my eyes for you guys as I read this awesome, awesome news! Praise God!!! I hope your transition to being a family together goes as smoothly as possible and that you are blessed. Congratulations!

-Gretchen

Anonymous said...

HOORAY!!! It is just wonderful to hear that all went well today. Needless to say, we have been thinking lots about you and Meredith.

And I love Meredith’s schedule, "three 2-hour naps per day, and 5 feedings". My dream life... That girl and I are going to get along just fine :)

Kristine (& Scott)

Rob said...

Joy!! Joy!!

Cannot figure out WHY I am so excited for you guys and for Meredith... but I am!

Stunned by His kindness,
Rob & Kim Pendley

Emily said...

Congratulatiosn! We are so excited for you guys. Can't wait to Meredith!!

Anonymous said...

Happy, happy, happy day!
Love,
Karen and Brian

abby said...

What an incredible day for all 3 of you! Welcome to the extended UCC family Meredith!

Becca said...

YEA YEA YEA and Hooray!!! :)

fsmatthews said...

Awesome!!! Our family has been praying for you guys and Meredith for many months. we are excited for you and your new family!! we look forward to meeting Meredith in person. Enjoy your first family times together in Moscow and we now shift our prayers to parenting- you guys will do great!!

Anonymous said...

Amazing news! Congratulations! You definetly are in the home stretch! We're so thrilled for all three of you and can't wait to hear more as your family comes home to FL! Take care!

Christine

Anonymous said...

Unbelievably exciting!! We have been building up to and expecting this day, but to have it actually HAPPEN!!!! It is just so wonderful! Meredith looks great, and you are just a little family now! We'll be praying that God will continue in his lovingmercy to bless the rest of your trip real good! We cannot wait to see this little sweetie!
Love, Grandma and Grandpa K.!

Anonymous said...

Dear Sarah, Rob, and Meredith,

We are so happy for you. May the Lord bless your family richly as you grow in grace together. We are expecting Anita here on Saturday and I know she is so excited for you.

Love, the Zandstras

Anonymous said...

I have tears of happiness in my eyes! I am so thankful for the way you guys are being blessed. So excited to see you back at church with your daughter soon!

Gallagher said...

Congrats to the three of you-we are so happy for you all. She is just precious.
The Gallaghers

Anonymous said...

Sarah - what an awesome experience you had on gotcha day! I think it is WONDERFUL they kept all her stuff - and by the way I have never heard of this happening. Hopefully this is something they are trying to do for the children and adoptive parents. We never saw Mason's bear or Astros outfit again. Maybe they didn't like it? Also, no one came to say goodbye to "Ilya" or to us but I love the way they all came and said goodbye to you and Meredith what a special moment that you will never forget - and what a great story for her. I hope this is something they are now doing for everyone but you should certainly feel special. They obviously know she is going to a great home! Safe travels!

Anonymous said...

Sarah:
The picture of you putting Meredith in the car seat is really the first of a HUGE number of times you'll put your daughter in her car seat. That must be such a happy feeling on what must be the absolute best day of the trip! Congratulations.